***
In most cases, the cause behind Imposter Syndrome has little to do with experience. It usually involves getting in our own way and focusing on the wrong things.
Here are four steps
you can take in your recovery:
Step 1. Embrace the Purpose Behind Your Writing
When you doubt yourself or your message, revisit your “why.” Why did you start writing in the first place? Was it to inspire, educate, entertain, or
connect with others?
Here are a few questions that will help you clarify your purpose:
- What do I hope readers will gain from my writing?
- How does my story or message address their needs or struggles?
- What problem am I trying to solve for my readers?
- How has my writing shaped me as a person?
Let’s be honest. None of us writes simply to entertain. We want to make a difference in the world. We want to go to bed knowing we’ve made the world a better place.
God has designed you with a unique voice that can bring healing
and growth to your readers. Nobody can substitute for your voice.
READ. THAT AGAIN!
Step 2. Focus on Connection, Not Perfection
Many first-time authors get stuck thinking their book needs to be perfect to matter. But perfection isn’t what readers are looking for—they're looking for connection.
Your readers want to see themselves in your words. They’re not looking for flawless prose; they’re looking for authenticity and relatability.
Ask yourself:
- How can I be more honest and vulnerable in my writing?
- Am I speaking directly to the reader’s needs, fears, or dreams?
- Have I shared personal stories or insights that make my message resonate?
I know
this seems counterintuitive, but in most cases, the more vulnerable you become in your writing, the more credibility you build with your reader. Your vulnerability creates a bridge between your experiences and the experiences of your readers.
Step 3. Give Your
Readers Something to Hold Onto
A great book doesn’t just tell a story—it leaves readers with something tangible they can apply to their own lives.
Think about your audience:
- What emotions do you want to evoke?
- What lessons or takeaways will they carry with them?
- How
can you structure your book to make those takeaways clear?
For nonfiction authors, this might mean including practical tips or exercises. For fiction writers, it could mean crafting characters and themes that linger long after the final page.
Your book’s impact isn’t just about what happens while they’re reading—it’s about how their lives are different afterward.
Step 4. Remember, the Gift is in the Giving
The true gift of writing isn’t in the royalties or
accolades—it’s in the lives you touch. Every reader who finds comfort, clarity, or inspiration in your book is a reminder of why you started writing.
But this gift also comes with responsibility. To maximize your book’s impact, you must:
- Share it boldly, even when self-doubt creeps in.
- Write with your readers in mind, prioritizing their needs over
your fears.
- Stay committed to your message, knowing it has the power to change lives.
What’s the greatest gift you can give your readers?
You.
Warts, freckles, and fears.
Your Words Are a Gift
As you reflect on your writing journey this holiday season, remember the big picture.
It’s not about you. Seriously. Get over yourself and ignore those voices telling you that you’re not enough.
Then give yourself away.
Isn’t that the meaning of Christmas?
Your book has the potential to make a difference for your readers. It can offer hope, guidance, and meaning.
So, let this be your encouragement: Don’t hide your gift. Share it with the world. Your readers are waiting, and the impact of your words might be greater than you could ever imagine.
We’re making some adjustments to our packages. If you’re remotely interested in locking in to our 2024 prices,
you’ll want to schedule time with me today.